Why Life is more complicated than it seems?

You heard many people say that “Life is more complicated than it seems”. Maybe they are right or maybe they are not. So, which side am I going to take in this topic?

Well, the answer is none.

I can not and will not be able to take any sides until or unless I have my own factful opinion. So, if I don’t have any kind of opinion on this then, why am I even introducing this topic in front of you? I am doing this because I want to learn more about it, just like you do.

Did you ever find yourself in a place where you wonder “Oh! Why do people think that handling your own life is a big deal?” or on the contrary “Why is it not a big deal?” The common agenda of these two different queries can be discovered if we can find out an appropriate answer for this WHY?

Why do we believe what we believe? OR Why do we feel what we feel? I guess these two questions contain our answer.

You experience belief, emotions, faith, feelings, love, fear, confusion and everything else that we can not see but feel, are the most non-attachable parts of our lives.

Not only we can not see them without expression but also, we can not entirely control them or stop them from taking a rightful place in our lives.

Feelings are inevitable and so is fear.

So, maybe these are the remote things which make our lives more complicated because we can neither entirely control them nor completely understand them. And sometimes we are so occupied in the moment of living in whatever makes us feel good that we forget or we deny making the right decision because if we are going to do the right thing then we have to sacrifice that fun and that feeling which finally made us realize how much alive we actually are. And sacrifice is not one of those things which tops our priority of to-do-list.

Why?

Because obviously it is hard and it needs so much more than these words and a lot of motivation and discipline and consistency and patience and what not. And I know for a fact that most people are not willing to do that, not until they have the right amount of determination inside them or someone in their life who is willingly pushing them towards gaining that determination and wanting to help them to achieve what they really deserve. Which is obviously rare to find but remember if you don’t have someone like that in your life then you have to be your own rescuer and you should be that someone for someone else.

So, finally it comes to the conclusion that “ Life is not as complicated as it seems if you have the right amount of determination in you or the right person with you.”